Tuesday, December 30, 2008

What a Great Christmas



Most Sundays we go to Mass with our friends and neighbors, the Michaels. Mary Pat and Dave are Frannie's Godparents and they are very good to her and to us. What a wonderful day to have them over for Christmas breakfast to watch Frannie open her gifts. Traditionally, they invite friends over for Christmas dinner and have fun games and lots of good food. Although Frannie didn't burn or maul herself this year at their house, she DID wet her pants so the Griswald tradition lives on....

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Neener Neener Neeeeeener


I got to meet Faith the other day at McDonald's. I know, I know -- how did I get so fortunate? Donna called me on my way to Dunwoody, saying she wanted to meet for lunch and we were both equi-distant from the spot so I got to hear all about the lurid details of the trip. Yeah! She is just adorable and soooo good.

From his fullness we have all received, grace upon grace. Because while the law was given through Moses, grace and truth came through Jesus Christ. John 1:16-17.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Give Thanks


Today I am thankful for the friendships that have come from adoption. I love it when people see Frannie, stop me on the street and share their adoption stories. There is such a wonderful bond among all the families.

I read an acquaintance's blog today and she inspried me so much about how our next adoption is such a good thing. It may be difficult at times, I may want to cry in frustration with CC*I changing it's rules, with USCIS changing it's rules, agencies changing their rules ("NO, TODAY YOU HAVE TO WEAR purple PANTS AND SPIN AROUND twice *THEN* YODEL AND BARK LIKE A DOG! COME ON!! GET IT RIGHT ELLEN!!!"). Those who have done this know I'm not exaggerating too much.

Some angel put a Gymboree coupon on my office door this morning and I got the BEST deal on a Christmas gift for my niece in Seattle. Check out their sales!

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

So much going on



Hi -- Photos are about Locks of Love. New photos to come from our fun SEC fanfare event this weekend. Frannie was on tv twice -- she knows people. We got our fingerprints complete this morning -- check. We are planning Christmas, our trip to NY the day after and all the families we love and who need prayers this year. Just when you think you have stress and issues -- you hear about a family that is in dire straights and still manages to smile. Please pray for my friend Lisa who is this angel. No details required, but she needs a LOT of prayers. If you only knew.....

We would like to make some donations this year and forego all gifts for adults. I plan to make my usual little treats for those around us, but the rest of you will receive a card and our prayers. God bless!

Friday, December 5, 2008

Friend in China



My buddy Donna ("Digit" friend #1 returning to China for Chinese child #2, child #4 in the family) is in Hong Kong as we speak. I'm so excited for her. It makes me weepy thinking about it. God bless her and her family!

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

We are moving forward!


It's nice to at least check one more thing off the list -- moving forward to Gracie.

Changes have been made recently with the procedure for getting approval for Gracie to come here and be a citizen. The US government has to "check us out" and we were told the process has been streamlined and if our fingerprinting appointment is any indication, it's true! We are going to be fingerprinted next week and hopefully approved and ready to send our dossier to China in the next month.

All this means that we MAY be going to China as early as May!!

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Friends


A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter;
he who finds one finds a treasure.
Faithful friends are beyond price:
No amount can balance their worth - Sirach 6:14 and 15

First I must ask for prayers for my friend Lisa. She is going through what may be the most trying time of her life so far. God bless her with peace!

We had our 2nd annual photo shoot with Santa at Discover Mills. We had lunch and bade Donna farewell to head off to China for Faith! She leaves in 10 days! Hooray! Lucy is shortly behind her and hopes to leave before 2009. Wow, soon it will be our turn for Grace. If you want to see Grace's photo, send me a comment or e-mail and I'll send you her pics.

Frannie and I leave on Wednesday for St. Augustine while Kevin will spend Thanksgiving in Mississippi with his SEC buddies. Grrrrrrr.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Good News/Bad News

We got our Pre-Approval this week!

Our adoption agency went under and locked its doors!

What?!#

Yep, actually it's not as bad as it sounds, we can transfer agencies, but we need more information. I'll post more when we know more.

Friday, November 14, 2008

 
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Just some more fun photos from the last few weeks. Thank God for good friends.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Frannie is heading to the mountains


We leave tomorrow after school for my cousin's cabin in North Carolina for a girls' weekend. Kevin and I have been there a few times before and it's always such a treat. We are meeting my girlfriends from Spokane, which is an even bigger treat. We have not all been together since Angie's wedding almost 6 years ago? From L to R, Ellen, Jennie, Angie and Lynne. This photo was taken in Chicago about 10 years ago on St. Patrick's Day. How fun to spend time with such close, good friends and get caught up on life and laugh a lot. Can't wait!

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

The Day Has Finally Arrived



We have a baby! Kevin and I were presented with a 14-month old from the Sichuan Province and we both felt it was a good match. We are not allowed to post photos yet, per our agreement with the agency and the CCAA. She will be named Grace Elizabeth. A friend from blogging has a daughter from the same orphanage (they live on the other side of Atlanta) and she has already gotten me excited about going -- although this is the province that was the epicenter of the large earthquake in May, we hear it is a nice, large city with lots to see. You can see where it is in relation to Frannie's province (left click on the bottom photo, see Xian just above the marker) More to come....

Thursday, October 16, 2008

I miss my husband!


Kevin has been working the baseball playoffs -- in Philly, in Tampa, and now, in Boston. I never thought I'd cheer for the Red Sox to lose in my life -- but I want him HOME! If the Sox lose tonight, Kevin will be here tomorrow! If the series drags on, it could actually be .... Sunday? before we see him. He's been gone for almost 2 weeks straight and Frannie is getting awfully confused.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

Potty Training



Now for the REALLY important things....

Who wouldn't be proud of her bodily functions? I mean, it's not everyone that can actually aim for a potty AND hit the target. I'll spare you the pictures of her accomplishments. Additionally, who wouldn't be proud of that little bum bum?

Monday, October 6, 2008

Relaxing Day


One of the things I love about Frannie is how much she shows her joy with simple things. The summer of 1994, I think, was the 3-month stretch that I spent backpacking in Ireland and England and it gave me a wonderful, renewed sense of calm and relaxation that I had not known before. I came back from the trip so filled with awe about God's beauty in the world and I enjoyed the simplest things like warm sun on my face on a chilly day. This photo reminds me of lying on a hillside in Northern Ireland, watching the long, green grass wave in the wind and hearing only baaaaaa and mooooooo from afar and watching the sun twinkling on the Irish Sea. Thanks be to God for Frannie to help me remember the (reckless) simple times!

Friday, October 3, 2008

Xiangyang Friends

The guy I met at Home Depot got his son about 3 and a half years ago. No such luck. How's everyone?

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Next Child





In case you were wondering, we are actively looking for another baby on the Shared List, but it just hasn't happend yet. We have passed over a few because the feelings were not right -- it feels so different from the last time, but we are just waiting for a right fit for our family and for both of us to feel a connection with a child.

Today at Home Depot we went in search of paint for our rental property and we met a paint guy who is waiting for his LOA for his 2nd son from China. His first son is from Ally and Frannie's orphanage! Imagine that. I'm going to check back with him in a few months and see how things are going.

Yesterday we were lucky enough to see the daycare's caterpillar emerging from his/her cocoon (and promptly die, oh boy). They had it in a cage and we've all been watching the metamorphosis with anticipation.

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Our Funny Girl



I know every parent thinks their kid is the best, but they are delusional and we actually have the cutest, funniest one.

Monday, September 15, 2008

Pray Even More


This is by far the worst part of my job -- my sweet little Brenzelle passed away last night, no big drama, just gone. Please pray for her family and her nurse. She had a wonderful sense of humor, a great crooked smile and she taught me a thing or two about being a good friend. She didn't love me because I am thin or rich (because obviously, I am neither), nor because I'm particularly funny, smart or pretty. She just liked to see me a few times a week and hope I didn't make her work too hard. Frannie met her once and was a little scared maybe because she moved in an unusual way, but she never forgot her name and still occasionally says "Bwenzelle" out of the blue.

I hope she's now eating a big fat cheeseburger, fries and an ice cream sundae, because she has never experienced that before in her short life. She ate via tube. I hope she is climbing a tree, petting a dog or having a day without pain or discomfort (because I don't think she knows what any of that was ever like either). God bless you Yolanda for being such a good and loving Mom.

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Man, Who Is This Woman?


Sarah Palin impresses me for so many reasons, but mostly due to her apparent disregard for what others think.

Thursday, September 4, 2008

In Case That Wasn't Clear


My friend Lucy pointed out that I never really stated the fact that WE ARE GOING BACK TO CHINA FOR ANOTHER GIRL. I've asked so many people to pray and e-mailed friends and family about this, but my last blog was somewhat ambiguous. We have our home study almost complete (about 1-2 weeks until we are finally final), then we file a form with the US Immigration, wait about 90 days for that to be complete and sometime during this 90 day-period, we hope to find our next daughter on a Waiting Child List from our agency, Hope for Children. In the meantime, Frannie is calling the baby "Cherylina" after her beloved Cheryl. We can travel to China, probably, sometime between April and June. It would be CONVENIENT to wait until school is out and Kevin has some free time from work, BUTTTTTTTTT.......(that's a big buttttt) (as Pee Wee Herman would say "everyone I know has a big butt...."

Saturday, August 30, 2008

Some of You May Know This Story....


We met these 3 families about a year and a half ago -- we had all applied for girls from the Waiting List and happened to be numbered 6, 7, 8 and 9 on the list. We all keep in touch, get together as much as possible and love each others' girls immensely. God has put it in all of our hearts to go back to China AGAIN so this time next year we should have a photograph of EIGHT beautiful girls. By the way, Kevin and I are the only ones who have no biological kids so actually, the photograph should have FOURTEEN beautiful kids in it!

Monday, August 25, 2008

I Really Can't Believe It's Been a Year

Frannie was placed in our arms one year ago -- tomorrow. I think I'll be busy so I'm doing this today. Look how much she has changed! My vocabulary is not adequate -- the pictures say it better.

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Fun Times with Shelby


Frannie hung out with Shelby on Saturday and her family always knows the hot spots to hit in town -- the Bass Pro Shop, namely

Sunday, August 10, 2008

She couldn't be funnier

This was taken a few weeks ago. In case you don't understand what we are singing, or attempting to sing, it's "I'm a Little Teapot" and apparently it's the funniest thing she has ever heard.

Saturday, August 9, 2008

Okay, so I've been busy





To some Moms it may sound like a usual few weeks, but I have been concentrating on our home improvement projects(see attached -- like the old wall paper we found behind our mirror? It says "Valley Forge" in case you were looking for a great retro wallpaper for yourself), having a car accident and dealing with insurance issues, having guests (who were very welcome and fun to have, I might add), getting ready for school to start and being sick. Not whining, mind you, just not putting the blog high on my list of priorities.

Kevin is in Chicago, school starts in less than 48 hours, we are about to close on a piece of mountain property in Tennessee (yippee) near Lake Ocoee and my stuffy nose/allergies are going to be the death of me this week. Frannie has said "bless you Mama" about 100 times today, what a sweetie.

We had our final home study visit this week, due to our impending 12 month anniversary of having Frannie! Thanks be to God for our funny, sweet girl.

More photos to come of Kevin's latest project, installing hardwood floors in our hallway.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

My sentiments exactly



When there are not enough hours in the day....

Saturday, July 19, 2008

Thursday, July 17, 2008

The Great Northwest


About 12 days ago I was rushing around to pack and take care of the house before we left for our crazy trip when I heard Frannie fall off the bed in my bedroom. My bed is about 4 feet off the ground. She managed to jam her lower teeth through her bottom lip and they darn near came out the front of her chin. She was a mess, but we left 4 hours later for Virginia.

Kevin got home from a work trip and quickly packed for our 8 days away. We jumped in the car and drove 6 hours to my sister's house in Virginia, where Frannie would be staying for the week while we flew out west. We stayed the night and got her acclimated to her surroundings. We nervously left on Tuesday morning and drove to Charlotte to catch our flight. We had a small bit of extra time so I called my buddy Lynne who had JUST moved to Charlotte that week to see if she and her new hubby wanted to meet for a beer before our flight. We got to spend about 1 and a half hours with Lynne and Chris at the airport, getting caught back up after seeing each other only one other time since our time in Spokane, 11 years ago.

We flew to Seattle, got a night's rest, rented a car and headed east. Although I lived in Washington, my goal was to see as much as we could, sights I had seen and some I had not. Our first real stop was Spokane which made me surprisingly emotional. Lots had changed, but most had not. We had some beers at Jack and Dan's, walked by our 2 old houses and met this year's JVs. The moment we walked into Jack and Dan's, the first guy I saw was a familiar face, if you can believe it. He was the former bartender at J&D's, but is now part owner. I should have asked to take his photo, but those JVs who are regulars will probably remember Kevin the dark-haired bartender with a goatee. Looks exactly the same. I also wanted so much to eat a Sonic Burrito, but yellowpages.com informed me they were no longer in existence. We walked down Hamilton and spotted a restaurant called "Ionic Burrito." Hmmmm. We went in to eat and when we asked the burrito guy told us that they had had a battle with the Sonic Burger people and Sonic Burrito lost their name.

We stayed in Couer de Alene for the night, right on the lake then drove up to Glacier the following day. The photo of the incredibly pregnant Amish lady was a few feet from the entrance. Poor lady. Here I am imposing on her privacy by taking pictures of her enormous belly. Ooops, sorry. We LOVED the scenery in Montana, the weather was fabulous and the B&B on Flathead was spectacular. Go out of your way one day and venture to Flathead, you will not regret it.

I have a small gambling compulsion so it's a good thing we do not live in a gambling state. I only lost about $50. Good thing Kevin is restrained. After leaving Flathead we drove through Missoula (oh, the memories, the beers we shared, the boys we kissed and the hangovers we nursed). We only stopped for red lights so I'm sorry to report (Angie, Lynne and Jennie), I didn't even have one beer at the Rhino or one boot at the _____ (what the heck was the name of THAT place? We drank beer out of a boot??? Sounds funny). Drive, drive, drive back east via scenic Idaho (where, by the way, I'm quite sure that 48 trillion trees could be logged and no one would notice the difference). I don't think I'm leaving anything out by saying bla bla bla, Idaho, Washington, Oregon then Washington again. The Columbia Gorge, Mount Hood, Mt. St. Helens and Ranier are all so incredibly spectacular that the photos and the words could never touch the beauty or the majesty.

Most importantly, we finally got to Shawn, Billy and Sadie's house (my niece and her family). We spent a few days with them, getting to know Sadie a bit better. She's 16 months and smart as a whip. We got to eat out a few times and see the sights near them in Olympia. Shawn kicked our butts in Scrabble, we took some nice walks, had some great meals and I got to see my new budding niece or nephew's ultrasound!).

On Sunday we drove up to Seattle to have lunch with another Spokane buddy, Alex and her family. Her Mom lives on Mercer Island (la dee da) and we ate and chatted on the deck overlooking the gorgeous scenery. Her little girl Ariya is so very cute and I regretably did not take one photo of Alex or her baby! We were about 2 miles away and I could have kicked myself for not thinking of it. Alex is the same as always, helping the world one needy person at a time. God love you Alex. She is a physician for the university in Seattle (Univ of Seattle?) serving refugees and the homeless. She deferred medical school a year to volunteer a year with me in Spokane (now that is charity), along with 4 other roommates, I mean as a Jesuit Volunteer working for the Spokane Food Bank. She's brilliant, fun, sweet and pretty as ever (darn you Alex Molnar!) with husband who is in medicine too.

My flight story is so complicated I will spare you the details, but Kevin and I got home, wanting to run to the hotel to find Frannie and kiss her all over. I will NEVER leave her again for so long. I missed her by the hour and felt horrible about the whole thing until Katie reassured me that she was fine from the start. We got to the hotel where Katie and Frannie were waiting for us and we got the nicest reception from her, I was so worried she would hate us for leaving her! She was so sweet. She kept smiling at us and saying Hi!! We got home this morning and we are not leaving until I have to go back to school in August!

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Meeting an Old Friend





We finally got to meet Jane. Her daughter Maddie is Frannie's orphanage buddy from Pennsylvania. Jane and I have been friends via the internet for a year now and we got a couple of hours to play in Auburn, AL before we left for our trip. She is so very smart and cute as a button (her daughter, I mean, but Jane is too!).